We often complain about men's seductive ways - but they are not the only ones. Too many women make it their duty to seduce men and break up marriages. While countless men feel it is natural and manly to have many partners and irresponsibly father countless children, many women welcome these men into their arms and are themselves cunning, seductive, and immoral.
Many women are like a much-needed mirage in a hot, sunny desert. From a distance, they lure thirsty men to their sides by their seductive beauty, borderline friendships, and cunning behavior. These men are mesmerized by the seemly pleasurable deeds, but are awakened to a painful world of cold love and abusive power. These foolish men are then led to the slaughter like dumb goats. When they awaken, they are caught between a wife and a pregnant lover, or a committed marital partner and possessive secret lover. These women know that men can see better than they can hear, so they entice them in a world of visual sensuality and pleasure. When it is all over (if it is ever over), hearts are torn apart, and permanent scars are left behind. Men, beware of these wolves in sheep clothing – seductive women.
Why do some women act this way? Is it because they are sexually or love addicted? Whatever it is, it is not healthy. According to the National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity (NCSA), “Some women go beyond these culturally-sanctioned behaviors and use sex compulsively as a means of gaining power and love. The idea of being ‘love addicted’ may be preferred by sexually addicted women because it fits the romantic, nurturer model of women, whereas the term ‘sex addict’ connotes an image of a ‘nymphomaniac,’ ‘slut,’ or ‘whore.’”
The following are a few of the behavior patterns of sexually addictive women:
• Changing relationships to control sexual fantasy and/or activities.
• Swearing off relationships only to give in to the next “right” lover.
• Breaking promises to self or others to stop abusive fantasy or sexual behaviors.
• Workaholism, overeating, or reading romance novels to take the place of a sexual relationship.
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