Question: I have been in many relationships with girls, and each time I think, this could be the one. But every time I start thinking that, the relationship goes sour. I’m in a relationship with this girl who’s like no other girl that I have been with. I’m starting to think that this could be the one, but I’m scared because this is where the relationship usually starts to go downhill. I have no reason or cause to think this except for past experiences. I want this relationship to go on, but I’m not thinking about marriage right now. I just enjoy her company and don’t want to lose it. How can I assure myself that this will not happen again?

Answer: There is no simple answer to this question. However, I want to look over a few ideas with you. First, I do not know how old you are. I am assuming, though, that you might be at the time of life where most people go in and out of relationships faster than shoe changes. This is not necessarily bad. In fact, if you enter a relationship with the idea of giving, and not merely expecting to receive, you will come out of that relationship more mature to face the others.

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